Woosah...dealing with the rude comments already

just_me

I’m regretting telling people so early that I’m pregnant because it’s now open season for comments 😤. I’m not even 7 weeks yet and everyone is on my last nerve!!!!

It’s like 150 degrees right now in Maryland, plus I worked a 12 hour over night shift. My mom just stopped by unannounced and wanted me to go run errands and get a pedicure. I told her no thanks bc it’s too hot and I’m tired. I also have really bad nausea right now. Her response “You need to get dressed and move around. You don’t want a lazy baby.” 😡

My friend saw me Saturday and said “Oh, God. You’re carrying twins. Look at you...it’s definitely twins”. I am barely bloated. I haven’t even gained weight...so wtf

My face is also breaking out a bit because of the humidity and heatwave. Plus I wear makeup everyday 🤦🏾‍♀️. My boyfriends cousin felt it was necessary to say “ You must not be taking your prenatal vitamins. You’re supposed to be glowing-not having acne flare ups”. Then gave me a speech on natural remedies for my skin and a water regime I should try.

The friend of the family takes the cake. She told me I needed to buy a new bra. I have big breast 38DD. She was telling me they are already larger and that if I’m not careful they will sag soon. She even felt me up because they looked swollen. Then she’s telling me I should breastfeed and on and on. I was waiting for her to ask me show her my nipples. I felt so violated for some reason. It was only women around but still it was uncomfortable.

RANT OVER