My husband and I are going through <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> for our first baby at the end of this month. I was talking to my best friend about how i told my mom we might not be able to visit for Christmas like we planned because I will hopefully be 6 months pregnant and I just don't know if I'll be up for the travel. It was a hypothetical, but i didnt want to blindside her later down the line. We live in vegas and she lives in portland, so its not far I just know it would be uncomfortable.

Anyway,my best friend had a son last year, and her boyfriend and her broke up right after she found out she was pregnant, she moved in with her parents and her special needs adult brother. She kept tellinv me that I shouldnt have said that becaise I should just plan to go to my moms.

I told her I didn't want to set false expectations. So she said i should just be grateful i wasnt in her situation. Am i not allowed to have problems now just because she is in a Crappy situation??

Should i not have said anything to my mom?