Kinda serious question. So I just started like for real dating this guy (like it’s official and what not) and he keeps wanting to have sex and I mean same dude I do too. But before we have sex I need to be able to talk to him about some serious stuff thats happened To me. In one of my previous relationships I was raped, and I feel like it’s something I need to share before I have sex with someone for the first time. I just feel like I don’t know what to do. Cause Idk if I’m comfortable talking about it with him yet. Like I’ve done this before but I’ve always dated people I’ve been friends with who already knew. I haven’t had to like figure this out yet. Idk I don’t want to scare him either. Idk