so my boyfriend used to be a player BIG TIME, he's had sex and messed around with girls constantly while I've dated a few people and had sex with only 2 other people, one being a girl and the other time being less than consensual....

when we're having sex I often feel inadequate and like he's constantly comparing me to all the other girls he's been with...it sounds dumb because we both love each other, but sometimes it just sucks....

any and all advice about how I can better deal with feeling undesirable would be appreciated....