I was referred to my OBGYN by a friend after we moved across country. She’s not a bad doctor but her staff (except one rotating triage nurse) SUCKS. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for over a year, all of our testing has come back normal, on many occasions she’s told me if I lose weight we’ll have a better chance. Which I know is not okay. I feel like the staff doesn’t care about her patients and the front desk ladies are rude beyond belief. After we’ve finished our fertility testing I started looking for a new doctor but I feel bad. I feel like my old office only cares about women who are already pregnant and not about women trying to conceive. Am I being too hard? Why do I feel bad?