So we had a miscarriage before my son he is now 11months we found out we were pregnant again the end of April well early May found out we lost it. June 3rd we found out we were pregnant again so another rainbow baby..I'm having shirts made my baby daddy's will be red and say dad of rainbows, mine will be purple and say mom of rainbows, and my sons will be blue and say big brother rainbow. I'm ordering this onsie online

Well I was talking to a friend and she said if she was me she wouldn't do that for announcement pictures. Everyone knows that my son is a rainbow baby and about our loss in May so I don't see what the big deal is..especially because she did a rainbow baby announcement last year when she announced (just a ultrasound picture and a rainbow baby onsie) So do I just ignore her and do what I want? I just don't get why she would tell me it's not a good idea??