My boyfriends trust issues
It’s long but please read it, I need advice.
Okay, so I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost 8 months now. He’s my first boyfriend but I’m not one of those people that are weird about it ya know? Besides the point, he’s had girlfriends before. One cheated on him, one left him for someone else, and the other did aaaalllllll types of shit right? Okay. So he has trust issues and I understand that, knowing what he’s been through and all. We have our problems like anyone else but we also have his trust issues. To a certain extent if I do some dumb shit like text another dude or obviously flirt with someone that’s where the starting line should be. With him, flirting is having a conversation with a manager or co worker. I work at McDonald’s, I am 16 I don’t NEED money but I want it ya know? 😂 anyways, he’s 18 and has been working there since he was younger also. He knows everyone there and this and that. But he will being doing something else while I’m in the front having conversations with the people around me, it’s flirting. We could be talking about a customer or anything, it’s flirting. I won’t be near them, I stay in my spot, i don’t go hit them play with them, or anyone that. But it’s flirting through his eyes. To him sometimes flirt with his own cousins. I don’t like one of them but I have to deal with them obviously because that’s his cousin, and then I apparent flirt with his other (gay) cousin. And today at work, one of my girl manager knows a regular customer that’s not always there and went to her McDonald’s all of the time before they closed down and the employees got transferred. So the closest McDonald’s to him was ours. He started coming and today she told him that I waned a hug to make him happy, so I gave him one you know not being rude since he was old and mentally unstable. While my boyfriend and I were clocking out, she said that I hugged a customer and then he asked if he was slow. When we got in the car and he pretty much flipped out. He pretty much said that I better not be lying and that I’m gonna be single if I do it again, stable or not. I just told him to stop talking to me because I got so mad.
So does anyone know what I should do? Breaking up with him is not one, i love him with every single cell in my body.
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