So I went to meet with this guy, he asked if I had ever been in a relationship and I asked him the same, “I’m a friends with benefits kinda guy so feelings don’t get hurt” was his answer. One thing let to another and he fingered me and I blew him he seemed really turned on. We had sex and it was good, he came and we laid and kissed for a bit then he went to take off the condom and it was broken. I’m not on birth control so we drove to get the plan b pill. He seemed so nervous, I was pretty calm because I’m just a calm at first freak out later person. We talked a bit and it was evident he would step up if I did get pregnant. He asked me to take the pill in front of him for “proof” like I wasn’t going to. Then after I left he kept sending me “I’m so nervous”. I woke up feeling like shit so I think the pill worked, I got like every side effect. Now I feel like that little scare totally turned him off from meeting up again. (I’m 21 he’s 20) so we’re both still in school, a baby right now wouldn’t be ideal but I wouldn’t have an abortion. Should I cut it off? I think he’s super cool and I wouldn’t mind just messing around and not having sex. I don’t what do y’all think?

Not interested in the “you should be on birth control” comments.