My partner & I have been on and off for two years. We hadn’t spoken for a few months and two months ago we reconnected. In the months we hadn’t spoken, I was sexually assaulted whilst I was unconscious. I opened up to him about that, and he got extremely mad. I never contacted the police or anything as I just wanted to forget about it, & I wasn’t too sure if they could actually do much considering I’m not even entirely sure what happened just what he told me he had done. Once the guy had told me I immediately blocked him on everything.

I told my partner the first name of the guy ( my partner has never met him or even heard of him) he was angrily asking me for the last name but seeing how angry he was I didn’t tell him the last name as I was afraid of what he’d do.

He clenched his fists and his jaw and started getting angry with his body language & the tone of his voice. He was swearing & saying that if I don’t go to the police he’ll find him and do something bad.

Do I have a right to be upset by this?

I understand he’s upset and angry. But I hate the fact that he’s giving me an ultimatum. He keeps bringing it up, even after he sees how much it upsets me. Is there anything I can say or do to get him to see it from my perspective? Or am I in the wrong?