Ways to get him intrigued again

We’ve been together for almost 2 years and our sex is just slowly diminishing. It’s been almost 3 weeks since we last had sex. He wanted to role play so we’ve tried that, we have watched porn while having sex.. he doesn’t want any toys but did enjoy watching me get off while he got his own 🤷🏼‍♀️ There’s never any foreplay anymore, we don’t kiss, or touch.. he just wants to start off having a blow job and wants to just jump in to having sex. Idk about all you ladies but I have to get some first too! I don’t know if it’s just me? Maybe he’s tired of having sex with me?

I want to be played with, spanked or kissed.. something! It’s always about him or nothing and it’s killing me. What do I do?! These stories on here about getting are making me feel just like damn... 😉😏 I need some in my life and gotta change it!