Isn’t it crazy?

I broke up with my boyfriend a week ago, or I guess you can call it mutual.

As I like to say, we love each other we just stopped liking each other. We fought a lot and on my end it was because he never acted interested in what I had going on in my life. He never asked questions, he would barely talk to me, and he would lay in bed next to me all day without saying a word and when id bring that up he’d simply just say “it’s just be, I like being alone” and saying he wanted “space” then came the whole marriage thing ..we were on two different pages. So I felt like I had no other choice if I wanted to protect myself from being hurt. We were together 4 years btw.

Same day we broke up it was emotional we both cried really hard and said our goodbyes and I moved out. I stayed at a hotel, called my bestfriend over, cried the next day and Two days later I went on a 4 day vacation and haven’t shed a tear since. I went on a family trip that he was supposed to go on and honestly if my family didn’t keep asking where he was I wouldn’t have thought about him. It’s crazy because the tables have turned we broke up two years ago and I was the one begging and crying but now HE WONT STOP TEXTING ME.

I’m terrified of the highway but I drove 5.5 hours by myself and he told me he was proud of me and he’s never said that the whole 4 years I’ve been with him.

He’s asking questions about my life, he’s being interested, he’s asking where I’m living, he texts me to say goodnight. Last night I drove back and didn’t tell him I made it back and he texted me twice and called me within 10 minutes. He also texted me yesterday to say “I miss you and I love you no matter what”

I don’t know if he’s just have post break up emotions but has anyone else ex ever did a 180? After a break up did you continue to talk to your ex? Did you get back together?

Oh might I add that we lived together with his parents so being in that small room together for over a year created our arguments too. This probably the longest we’ve been away from each other.