What do you do ?

What do you do when your husband says he wants to talk face to face when you get home and when you ask him or initiate the talk he yells you never mind and that it’s nothing and never want to talk about issues that he is having. I have done as well but he doesn’t leave me any room to communicate and one time I want to talk about my feelings and he disregarded them so he could drink beers with his friend. It bothers me to be in a marriage where I can’t communicate with my partner. So I’m completely in awe of what’s going on and just trying to figure out what to do next cause he don’t want to do counseling