So I keep seeing posts about wanting to be intimate with SO shortly after having a baby. I found sex while pregnant highly underwhelming. It just wasn’t the same. Now I am just trying to keep my head above water with baby. Sex is the last thing on my mind. I am in my mid-thirties, so maybe that has something to do with it.

Honestly, cuddles with baby while watching a movie is as intimate as my husband and I have the energy to be right now. I know sex will come back but for now we are just adjusting to being parents.

Am I the only one that is confused by wanting sex right away? I do get the appeal, but I am really ok with letting my lady bits rest and recover a bit longer.