I usually pride myself on how functional and happy my relationship is, but sometimes when we argue things stop being constructive and start being mean. I feel awful, but today I had a really bad day and my hubby wasn't helping. He invited friends over without telling me (I was at work) and when I got home my house was a disaster and hubby was completely plastered drunk. I tried being calm and asking him to get up and help me clean and all he did was laugh at me. Then I went to the kitchen to clean dishes and he comes up behind me and starts groping at me. At that point I lost it and called him a pathetic raging drunk and he needed to go to bed and sober up before he talks to me again. My husband is in NO WAY am alcoholic, but he does like his beer and he never has "just one" drink. Now he's downstairs in the bedroom and I'm upstairs eating Oreos in the kitchen. I feel like crap.