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doing a dom/sub power exchange requires trust and safety. you’re missing that and it won’t work until you have those things. it could be that your current partner isn’t the kind of person you can submit to, it definitely takes a certain type of person to be your dom. they should make you feel so safe and so good like u give him all the responsibility of your care. also you need a SAFE WORD. always in case things need to stop for any reason you’re not into it anymore. A good beginner toy is cuffs.and as far as pain goes, every sub has their own limits. you decide what the limits are and the dom works within those limits.
Should I delve into the deep trenches of rough sex?
After reading so many comments on here about rough sex, spitting, anal sex, letting the man take control, Bdsm I have decided to try some out. When fucking last night I let him have his way which he really enjoyed but it is mostly painful for me especially when I’m not in the headspace. I’d like to be in the headspace all the time. I’m scared he will cause me injury or something I just have a hard time letting go of my constant need to control and let him fuck me the way he wants. I want to be that girl for him. Is it okay to let go? This is the first man I actually ever had consistent sex with and learned everything from him. I don’t know if my vagina can take it yall. Does lube help? Anything that can help get me more turned on? I find I’m not getting as wet and nasty feeling as much anymore and it makes me sad...
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