Father and daughter

So my dad and I don’t get along. Never really have. So I wrote him a letter saying all the things I couldn’t say in person. He’s always said that I was the reason him and my mom fought, that out of a million sperm he how did he get stuck with me and all these other hurtful things. Well he doesn’t particularly like my husband and I told him he probably won’t like my kids since he doesn’t like my husband. At the end of the letter I said is 18 years were up and he wasn’t stuck with me anymore but I just heard from my mom he’s asking if I’m okay. Should I try to work things out or just go my own way? Any advice is highly appreciated