is it bad that i don’t have sc or insta?

my ex broke up with me because i’m not allowed to have social media🤔 he told me even his 7 year old cousin has it and i’m

not allowed to have it. (i’m almost 16). my parents are very protective, and i can see their reasons for it. is it really that bad for me to almost be 16 and not have it? sometimes i want it just so i can be like everyone else but idk, it’s stressful🤦‍♀️