Bartholins cyst 😢😢

I had a bartholin cyst which grew out on my right side like 2weeks ago..I was told it needed to be cut open but I've really had a huge fobia for surgeries and after It stopped hurting and i stopped paying attention to it, it desapeared 😄😄

Now I feel like it developing on the other side and am so devastated 😭I never want to have any cuts on my vagina I haven't given birth yet and I just wanna find out If anyone got rid of them using home remedies please please help a sister out.. I'm almost failing to sit down and any movements around the ass and vjay are so uncomfortable am forced to lie in bed now..please help urgent2