Hi,

I’m on my 1st round of Femara, but I have had 6 rounds of clomid a few years ago. They all failed. Now I’m with the RE am on day 9 of my cycle. I have to go on Friday for bloodwork and an u/s to see how it worked. I was talking to my husband about how nervous I am. I will be very upset if I don’t ovulate. He said that in one way he hopes I don’t....due to the fact I’m 41 and higher miscarriage rate. He said you will feel like a failure and be devastated. He knows me so well and loves me so much that he’s trying to save/protect me. I told him if I do get pregnant and miscarry then I will be so blessed that we got so far(no pregnancy for over 6 years of trying) and that we have an angel. Does anyone know where I’m coming from and how to help my husband relax? I know he means well and is really worried about me.

I love him so much. He has taken on my 2 children from my ex-husband as his own. He is an amazing dad to them. I want to bless him with his own child.

Thanks