Advice !

We have been trying since October. I am a worrier by nature so trying to get pregnant, people like my mom keep saying stop worrying or stressing. And it will just happen when it’s supposed to. But how does everyone do that? Some say don’t track because it just makes you to stressed and then I think well if I don’t track then I won’t know which days are my fertile days. I don’t have any kids so I’d like so advice. From people that have tracked and it worked and some people that never tracked and it worked. And tips on how to not stress or worry about it. Thanks in advance!! 💕💕