Did I orgasm?

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Call me “old fashioned,” but my husband and I waited until we got married to have sex. We are only about a month and a half into our marriage and sex life, but I’m not 100% sure if I have orgasmed. 
One of my good friends told me there a levels of orgasm intensity? Never heard of that until now. She mentioned I may have had a mild orgasm because there was at one point where my husband would feel me up and finger me and I started laughing (and also got wet). But I want to be able to feel an awesome, intense orgasm where it’s “life changing” and “feel new feelings.” Any advice on how I can have awesome orgasms during sex?

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look into tantric sex it's super intense we just began practicing

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Okay first, orgasms aren’t “life changing.” But communication is key so tell him what feels good and what doesn’t. If that doesn’t work try incorporating toys

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There are definitely more intense orgasms than others but if you aren’t sure if you have orgasmed then you may have just gotten wet. Some women have harder times orgasming than others. I had sex probably 30 times before having a real orgasm and when it first happened I knew for sure it was an orgasm since it felt so different. It felt kind of like uncontrollable muscle spasms in the vagina and obviously I got very wet during it. If you think you haven’t yet then maybe try different positions.

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I think orgasms are pretty obvious when they happen. It’s not really something you miss.  But also not exactly life changing. 
Have you tried touching yourself (mutually with your husband is fine) so you know what feels good? Without having touched myself first I don’t think I ever would’ve been able to direct anyone else to what felt good.

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There are different intensities, but you probably wouldn’t really be questioning it if you actually did climax. I’d try some new tricks, talk to him and definitely don’t laugh haha!

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omg dont laugh i think that would be a turn off.. lol. 
i usually cum when im riding him feels really good, im like bouncing up and down on his dick. but i only move my hips and butt. 
also cum when im laying down and hes rubing on my g spot.

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Girl you gotta get a vibrator and just put it on your clit. Or go lay under the bath faucet. When you have an orgasm, you’ll know. I was 14 when I had my first one.

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I think it’s so cool to find other couples that waited until they were married to have sex. Same here. Way to go ❤️

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In my opinion, you wouldn't necessarily know if you did orgasm. When I started masturbating I didn't even really know what masturbating was, and I would orgasm every single time but I didn't know what an orgasm was either lol. So to help you out, it feels like a peak, it pulses down there really quickly and then slows down.
There are different intensities, and some last longer than others too. Just keep having fun, experimenting and reading (if that's your thing) and you'll both get better and better :)

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Try using a wand if you’re into that. Maybe try different positions

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