Any recovered broken hearts out there?

Question

Long story short, I got my heart ripped out and destroyed by an ex boyfriend. I am completely over him, but I can’t develop those lovey-Dover emotions anymore and I don’t know what to do. I’ve tried multiple things. Im trying to move on, and it feels like I’m going to be emotionless and drained of love for the rest of my life. 
Please, if you’ve bounced back from this exact thing comment how long it took, does the emotion feel the same? And is it genuine?

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I have no story for you, because I’m still kind of in the same situation as you. Almost married this last one. It’s been about two years, and I have moved on, in that I don’t miss him or feel sad that he isn’t around anymore. But I DO feel drained of “love” as you described. I invested a whole lost of myself in my last relationship. I don’t feel like I have anything left to give. Usually in the beginning of a relationship, there’s some effort you gotta put into it, like flirting, try to make yourself more appealing... but I’m exhausted of doing that. I guess I, too, just haven’t met the right one. But I believe that is just it. I’m not trying to force anything with anyone new anymore, even though I’d like to find someone. That guy will come around, some day, and it will feel natural, and you’ll know it’s meant to be. I think we only feel emotionally drained when it’s with the wrong person.
Also, I know this isn’t what you asked, but if you ever want to talk about it, get some advice or just vent, feel free to message me. Like I said, I can definitely relate to you in your present situation. Cheers!

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Don’t rush yourself. I feel like it takes roughly about a year to fully recover from complete and total heartbreak. Sometimes longer. But yes, I’ve had my heart dragged through the mud and in the end, you’re thankful that person did that to you. I grew so much from each person who broke my heart, and I am 1000 times thankful that I did not end up with any of them. Because you do find someone better, and the feeling is genuine. If you aren’t feeling anything yet, you haven’t met the right person, that’s all.

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I was with someone for almost 10 years, helped raise his daughter and then found out he cheated. It was the worst feeling in the entire world, the pain I felt was so deep it physically hurt. I packed my stuff and left. After some time I decided to get back out there and just start meeting people. I joined Tinder with zero expectations, just wanted to have fun! I ended up meeting the most amazing guy. He's everything I've ever hoped for in another person and I'm happier than I've ever been. We're now in the process of moving in together and I'm absolutely certain he is the one. When I was going thru that with my ex I never could have imagined I'd end up being thankful that it happened because it led me to where I'm at today. Keep an open heart and an open mind and the right one will find you when you least expect it!

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