Prep for anal?

Question

Hi ladies. I’m planning to try anal sex for the first time but I want to take the proper steps to be sure I’m clean. I just don’t want any mistakes while this happens. Usually when I wash I stick my finger in slightly with my rag. I’m afraid once he’s in me there might be something I missed. For anyone that has tried it or actively has anal please help me out!! I don’t want to be embarrassed 😩

Answer

tbh, it did happen to my husband and I a few times that it came out dirty 😭 Good thing we always used a condom while doing anal play. I was really embarrassed but he always said not to worry about it. What I would recommend is getting a toy first and you inserting the toy and then let your man play with you with it. I started doing this because my husband would just jam it in there and it was quite painful even with lots of lube. After that, it was really pleasurable because it was up to me to put in the toy and it would prepare me for him and it was hot af having him play with me while I went down on him. He really enjoyed that too.  Do try an enema though.

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I was nervous at first that I would be dirty or something would be on him after he pulled out. Nothing was ever on him after! Haha 
Use lube for sure! Water based kind! 
It’ll be okay. Just relax, and tell him to go slow at first!

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If your partner knows what they’re getting into with anal a little residue on his dick won’t freak him out. Keep wet wipes near the bed anyway so he doesn’t have to go too far to clean up in that event. Also don’t freak out but once you get past any pain (which shouldn’t be too bad if you’re lubed properly and relaxed- which you may have a hard time doing your first time it’s okay) dick in your ass will constantly feel like you have to shit IMMEDIATELY.

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Dont try penis in anus cold turkey. The huge majority need to work up to it over time (days weeks months etc everyone is different) with butt plugs and toys.