My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a couple of months now. I have lupus, and been living with it since I was 16. For about a year now it's been under control. when I had my daughter it was a piece of cake, but now that we're trying to conceive more it's extremely difficult due to the fact that it (the lupus) is starting to progress, (i just found out yesterday) and a couple of other things...sorry but I just needed to vent....