My boyfriend just turned 20 yrs old, and I am 17. We’ve been together almost a year and I love him a lot. Let me give a couple examples as to why I feel this way. He has no car, he lives at his grandmas house (that one isn’t a big One to me) He doesn’t save money he blows it on dumb stuff, he still hasn’t graduated high school. He’s had 4 jobs over the years(can’t keep a steady one), and currently is a dishwasher in a restaurant. When he had his previous job he STILL never had money due to blowing it on

stupid shit. He didn’t have a job for awhile due to calling off/ being late, they suspended him and said if he was late again he will be fired so he decided to just not show up again because he said he knows he’s gonna be late again.😒 So during that 3 weeks I pulled the weight I bought everything him or I needed. He finally got his current job and I was happy because now it’s not gonna all be on me. He was talking to me the other day about working 4 weeks straight and saving all the checks then having 1,000 from the checks and quitting. IM LIKE WHY WOULD YOU QUIT!?!? he’s like because i’m gonna have 1,000$. Like does he not know that money eventually runs out!? Wtf.

When he got his check he filled up my tank of gas because I had been driving him to work and back etc for a long time . I was thankful for this. I drive him around a lot and he’s only put gas in my car once before this a long time ago. I reminded him the day he got paid that he had a phone bill coming up he said oh yeah thanks for reminding me. And NOW the phone bill is due tmrow and he’s 40$ short. How you might ask!?! because he blew his money on video games and b.b. guns and STUPID shit. So now i’ll be loaning him 40$ when I just paid his bill 2 months ago !!! AND I paid it twice before the time two months ago and he NEVER paid me back. I’ve also loaned him 20$ here 10$ there constantly throughout our relationship and he’s only paid me back ONCE. IM SO SICK of being the only One with a car the only One with work

ethic the only one with a fucking plan for my life!!!

I never thought money would ever matter in a relationship to me, but when it comes to the point of him being so irresponsible with his money and me pulling all the weight it’s exhausting, I don’t even feel like my money that I go to work and earn is fully mine. I have talks to him about this all the time but nothing seems to get through. I love him, and I want to be with him and thatS why it’s hard for me, because how are we ever gonna get a house together? raise kids together? travel together? I just don’t know what to do.