Update: some of these comments ladies have me in tears from laughing 😂😂 omg.. but to clarify, I don’t think my husband would actual ever do it, like if by some strange turn of events I said yes, I don’t think he would have the balls to. He is very shy and when it comes to the bedroom I am more adventurous then he is and he’s the only guy I’ve ever had sex with.. he’s really not that smooth in the bedroom. Don’t get me wrong, I love him deeply and we are soulmates but the more I think about it and ask him about it maybe he’s wanting it so he can watch me with another woman cuz he cant always satisfy me? Idk.. he’s never said anything to that nature but after reading some comments it got me thinking that maybe that’s the issue is that he feels bad? But idk. He only ever jokes about it and says he’d be totally ok with it if I wanted to do it but I’m not about to share him with anyone.... the answer will always be no for me.. I think most of it too right now is that I’m pregnant and my hormones are crazy and I’m on pelvic and bed rest for the rest of the pregnancy.... until the end of aug 😭😭 I think I’m just over think 🤦🏼‍♀️

So my husband keeps hinting that he wants a 3some...... kind of jokingly, kind of not... but I don’t mainly cuz I don’t like the way I look and I don’t want him having sex with another female cuz I feel like that would be cheating... I know it’s just one of his fantasies but it kinda just make me feel like he just wants a free card for another girl..... am I crazy or is this like a normal thing? Mind you, I am 34 wks prego with our 4th and we have been together for 7 years, married for 6. And this is a fantasy he had even when we started dating so it’s not anything new.. is it just a guy thing or something?