What’s the worst thing a man has ever done to you?

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I hope this doesn’t inspire a lot of negativity but hopefully an outpouring of support. We should never accept being treated like trash by those we love or anyone for that matter. 
I let a man call me stupid for four months straight and said nothing to defend myself. I still struggle with the fear of being defenseless when I love someone.

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Stayed with a boy for 3 years. Let him lie to me and cheat on me and still begged for him back. Called me a cheated and treated me like trash. Made every one think I was such a horrible person and talked so much trash about me.. and now have a one year old and currently 20 weeks pregnant with his second.. but he kicked us out and is now marrying a girl he has been with less than a month.. and now he is a total dick to me because of this new girl...like at least before he was some what loving to m.🤷🏻‍♀️

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Worst thing a man has done to me... broke me completely at the age of 15 when i was sexually assaulted. Gave me serious issues that i still struggle with at the age of almost 30. 
Next worst was my ex who didn’t understand that no meant no. It didn’t matter if we had had sex before or how often; no means no. A girl fighting you off but can’t because you’re twice her weight and a foot taller... I mean come on? Just because she gives up and lets you doesn’t mean it’s okay.  Just because she’s completely broken inside and too afraid to be alone doesn’t make it okay either. 
Or when my husband cheated on me and broke my confidence all over again.

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When I was about 11, I was friends with a girl my age. She had a brother that was a teenager at the time. I was at her house playing with her, and when she left to use the bathroom, her brother came in. He kept trying to kiss me and touch me, but I was pushing him off. When my friend came back into the room, I told her that I had to go home. My house was right behind hers, and there was a big hill that I had to walk down to get to my back door. So on my way home, her brother followed me, picked me up, laid me down on the hill, and kept rubbing his boner on my crotch. I laid there until he was done and let me go because I was way too little to do anything about it. My dad raised me with the ‘boys will be boys’ mentality, so I always blamed it on myself and not him and didn’t tell anybody. 
Less than a month later, her brother had started acting normal with me again, so I was back at their house. The three of us were playing truth or dare (obviously the clean version because we were children), and he dared me to kiss him. I told him no, and he grabbed my face and forced me to make out with him, tongue and all. Their mom walked in during this, called me a slut, and kicked me out. Again, I blamed that on myself. 
Since then, I’ve been super guarded around guys and never allowed myself to get into a situation like that again. It took me months to get fully comfortable with my current fiancé, but he’s the most understanding man I’ve ever met ❤️❤️

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the worst thing was almost killing me bc I answered his phone and talked to his other gf at the time. he abused me emotionally, mentally then finally physically. I left but I didn't realize how much damage was done till after and it makes dating hard for me bc I have no trust in males. he used to rape me too bc he had to have sex so much and would make me feel bad if I said no so I did it even though it would hurt and I didn't want it. trying to date again idk how to act

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Was with my ex for a year and a half. He was 7 years older than me and was losing his apartment so he came to live with me. He wasn’t working and I would work night shifts. He drank a lot and while I was at work he was sleeping with numerous girls without my knowledge. Fast forward 4 years and I’m with a wonderful man and my ex STILL won’t leave me alone. He is a full piece of shit lol

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My ex got so mad at me for my kids dad showing up on Father’s Day unexpectedly at my parents house ( kinda was a coincidence cus the dope house was in front and he went looking for drugs and we were outside picking up my kids) totally NOT my fault. My ex got so mad and thought I had set the hole thing up so he grabbed my phone and thru it out the window. And when we got home he broke my front windshield to my car. A few days later we fought about him being out late and after he saw I posted on here about leaving him he got super mad again and I really did try to leave but then he broke my back windshield too and locked me out. While I was trying to get back in he closed the back door on my fingers so I kicked it and it broke. My kids were inside and I just wanted to leave. But after I broke the door he pushed me and said I wasn’t leaving bec he was calling the cops. He yelled at me in front of my kids and told me I was going to jail. Later he called his mommy and him and his sisters packed my stuff and kicked me out the house with my two kids. 💔☹️

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I let a man use me as sex doll and convince me that he didn’t rape me multiple times. And that i was a whore and everything was my fault despite the fact I bent over backwards for him and he could never show me any respect

What’s the worst thing a man has ever done to you?

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