my mom can be a bitch

my parents live 2000 miles away from my husband and I and I very rarely ever hear from them I always am the one calling and they are always too busy to talk. so yesterday my mom starts texting me baby names (twins due in January) and some of them are insanely dumb especially for my mom to come up with. not to mention she was shooting down every name my husband and I came up with. and my mother thought one closely resembles one of her brothers names and she asked if she could call the baby his name instead and i said only if you absolutely hate her and in that case you won't have to worry about seeing her (my moms brother is a drunk who use to beat the shit out of my grandma and let his older brother molest his gf grandkids... aka he's a heaping pile of shit and that's putting it nicely) I made a comment to my husband about wondering how many drinks she's had today and then my mom made the comment that she isn't telling anyone about the babies until she knows that they are all right and all the chromosomes are there .... I was like excuse the fuck out of me. so I called her and she was laughing and I could hear my dad in the background laughing too. and i went into mama bear mode and asked her wtf she was talking about. she said she is worried that if there was something even slightly wrong with

one or both babies that I would abort. my mom knows my views on abortion for myself and so I was in shock she even said that I advised her they could come out with 12 heads each and I wouldn't care because they are still my babies that I have wanted more then anything especially after my mc in march her response was well then i raised you right I was like YEAHHHH and in my head I was thinking you also showed me what its like to have a parent who drinks all the damn time and you're the reason I hardly EVER drink. I love my mom but I am now choosing different names that she will find out at my kids birth and no sooner.

sorry I know I'm going to probably catch shit for this but I'm a hormonal pregnant and i needed to vent. so sorry if this offended you.