My SO and I have been TTC for about a year now, on and off. We've been through 2 MC's. My life goal has always been to conceive by the time I turned 30. Well this past June my 30th came and went. It's been tough since then. My SO has a low sex drive to begin with, but with having missed my life goal I've been absolutely turned off. I have set a new goal, 34, but at this point I feel like I've given up. It's hard enough when you only BD once a month, now it's even more difficult because I can't get in the mood and don't even see why I should bother at this point. I really could use some advice or support or positive vibes to get me back on track.