Help everyone, boyfriend crisis

Chandler

Well, me and my boyfriend have been together for a while , and it never happened until recently. He’s fairly big and people keep saying it’s because he ripped me but like I said , hasn’t happened until within the last week or so. But everytime we have sex, I bleed . Not a little either . Like clots . And I had my period two weeks ago . So it can’t be that either . Help !