I'm sexual and my husband not so much

when we had no kids and even pregnant with my first we couldnt keep our hands off each other, then after she was born not so much and it became every few months maybe longer then after we got married a month later we found out I was pregnant with our second and even then nothing every so often we would, even after she was born every so often I know kids come first and thats totally fine cuz I adore my children. Just feels like hes given up, I have to initiate it. Even the other day when i dolled my self up and looked good, nothing not even you look beautiful or you look so good and it happens alot when I try to look good for him. I just want to feel wanted. Sad when you have to satisfy yourself most of the time.