soooo recently out of a very long term relationship. took a few months to myself. ended up meeting this guy, one thing led to another and we're sleeping together on the regular now. my old relationship wasn't very spontaneous in bed... some "choking" (which believe me I have since learned was NOTHING)... this new guy is a freeeeaaaaaak and I'm loving it. only thing is? idk how to be kinky. I know how to take it, I know how to let him do his thing and I've gone with it very well. but what can I do to him? idk how to even talk dirty 😂 I own handcuffs, just never used them before because my ex was a pansy. I've brought my vibrator with me, and he's used it. but what else can I do to keep it as amazing as it's been?! this guy is literally, the best sex I've ever had... plus he's pretty cool too 😏