Lazy Husband

Can I rant for a moment??? Firstly, I want to say I love my husband. I really do. But y’all. He’s so freaking lazy!!! I have asked for months to have him clear out the backyard. We had landscaping back there when we moved with big plants and shrubbery. Well now it’s a jungle and it’s overtaking the yard. He has yet to control it. I also have asked that when I work (12 hr shifts, 3 days a week) that he help with dishes household chores some. He hasn’t done a single dish. It’s overflowing onto the counter top and the kitchen looks disgusting. He’s done laundry but hasn’t folded any of it. So it’s all sitting on the basement couch getting wrinkled. I’m so fed up it isn’t even funny. I’m overwhelmed to the point that I walked into the kitchen and had a full on panic attack after work. What am I supposed to do 😭