I made the right decision on ending my marriage because as of right now this sucks and it’s pretty painful.

When my husband was single, he was used to going to strip clubs, those sport bars where they only wear lingerie, gambling and drinking all the time,typical single guys stuff I guess but I wasn’t aware of this.He told me all the right things to fall for him.We moved in together, got pregnant and I really thought we had an amazing relationship, sex all the time and he loved it, I couldn’t get enough of him.Our baby was born then months later he asked me to marry him so of course I happily said yes.A few months go by and we decided to try for our 2nd baby.All this time he would always go out once a week to play poker and get back at 4 am but I never told him to stop because I wasn’t trying to stop him from having a life and a night to himself considering he is a hard working men, never thought he would do me wrong, Boy was I so wrong about everything!

While I was pregnant I got upset because he was looking at half naked girls instead of joining me for a shower and sex after which we would do twice a week, this pregnancy was tough so he asked me and i told him I didn’t wanted to talk at that moment.im the type of person that doesn’t like to argue, yell or say something mean I would later regret.Next day comes, after work he gets ready and heads out on a weekend unusual for him.He went to a strip club by himself, got all nude lap dances then to the casinos at 5 am.At home we had an extra phone that was sync to his and for some odd reason i look at the contacts so weird but it had a most recent contacts and a girls name was there, not something strange but he always saves everyone with last name and everything except for hers and the area was from a state away.i left to stay at my moms place.So he had all weekend and not once did he answered my calls, he told me he went to the casinos to the next state, he left all the strippers stuff out so I kept insisting to tell me the truth and who that girl was, after lying to my face multiple times and me begging to tell me the truth turns out that # was one of the strippers he got to know pretty well.Of course he deleted everything so I checked the phone records and turns out the next day after he met her , he text her twice then she answered and met somewhere.They had sex and told me she was the back up plan because I didn’t text him that night.worse time of my life!! After all the crying and disappointment, he promised he would never do it again instead talk about our problems first, I made the decision to forgive him and think of our family. for a whole year he was good then in may another argument and does the same shit strippers, sports bars and everything. I told him I couldn’t forgive him again, it’s not fair to me.Today I finally had enough and asked him to move out because I can’t stand seen him doing his single stuff. He did left this morning, The thing is we put an app to see where we are at all times to get my trust back and I’ve seen where he’s been today all day which consists of poker place, 3 strip clubs and right now he’s in a hotel 2 min away from one of them,Which means once again he found someone to have sex with and it’s killing me.I know I need to be strong and I made the right choice to not try to work on this marriage anymore 😢