Just leave?

So many woman are always on here telling woman to leave their man when we complain about something they’ve done or are not doing (I thought this was a place where we could come and vent) can we ladies please be more realistic with our advice? I know if the tables were turned the ones saying “just leave” wouldn’t even take their own advice. Also I’m not talking about abusive or cheating advice I mean ... if my man said he wouldn’t go to the store to get me ice cream a bunch of woman would say “leave his ass” like come on 🤦🏾‍♀️