I need help my boyfriend want me to visit him for awhile but I get really depressed whenever I’ve left him and I’m at the point where I’m going to start school soon and I want to better myself and all he says is for me to live with him and his family and he starts to get mad with me and tells me I could just find a job there and drive his car, like I love him and all but I want to live my life I don’t want to just become his housewife. What should I do I’m only 20??