Sex...

Condoms & birth control are pretty much the ONLY solutions . He may bring up the "pulling out" method , but trust me honey , you can STILL get pregnant . Even if sperm TOUCHES the vagina , there is a chance you can become pregnant . So keep sperm away from your downtown area & you'll be fine . & if you think your ready , then go ahead . But there is NOTHING wrong with your choice of waiting until you get married , just know your only young once & that your goodies are more valuable than promises . 

I don't believe you should make a decision about your life based on a promise to your friend. If you are so focused on this promise, maybe it if because you're not as ready as you think you are. If your friend knows you well, and knows your boyfriend/how happy you have been with him, she should understand that this is your decision and that it is ok to change your mind. Talk to your friend, and talk to your boyfriend. And don't make a decision until your heart agrees with your mind. 

Talk to your mom. Or your big sister if you have one. I could never talk to my mom because it was embarrassing to me but my sister was really understanding and we are super close now!!(: I know your 16 and you think your in love... But trust me there is a 50/50 chance of it not working out... You want your first time to be with somebody you can really trust and somebody who respects you enough to wait for you until YOU are ready! Don't rush things sweetie. It's only good with somebody who respects and loves you for YOU.(:

Talk to your mother. I would love if my daughter would come talk to me bout sex instead someone telling her go ahead and etc..... I would sit and listen to my daughter. But I know I won't be round if she does the deed. I would put her on the pill or depo. 

I'm 16 and got pregnant with using a condom. Not everything works. 

Talk to your bestfriend about it. Maybe she feels the same way? If you're ready for sure, then you shouldn't let someone else stop you from doing what you want to do. Also, condoms and birth control are THE BEST ways to prevent pregnancy. Please if you're going to have sex, use a condom or some form of BC if you're not TTC. 

Pull out or don't have sex or anal or bjs or hj

Your friend is not in control of your sex life. She's not gonna stop being friends with you because you had sex before marriage. If she does then good riddens. If you're ready and you trust the guy and you want him to be your first then go for it. 

Maybe you should talk to your friend and reevaluate the promise. See if she still feels the same