breech baby vent

I'm tried of my friends and family. they keep asking how baby is which is fine but when I say she's breech EVERYONE just laughs and says she's stubborn just like me. it was funny at 28/30 weeks but now at almost 38 weeks it's not funny. I'm terrified. I had to send this to my best friend today because she just didn't seem to get it. idk how people think it's ok to laugh about this when it's very obvious I'm stressing over it.

The baby is still breech. Everyone thinks it's so funny cuz she's being stubborn. No. It's not funny. It's dangerous for her and for me. I have a consultation tomorrow to see if we can flip her manually. If I decide to go that route she can end up not turning or in destress and I'd have to have an emergency C-section. And if I decide not to try to flip her and she stays breech and I go into labor, again emergency C-section. Only other option is to schedule surgery and hope she doesn't try to come on her own before then. This is not how I wanted things to go on top of the laundry list of things that can go wrong during surgery, idk how I'll react to the meds, idk how I'm gonna be able to heal and learn to be a new mom when I'm barely gonna be able to walk and Hector can't take time off of work so he will be working from home for the first 2 weeks and after that I'm screwed