Names:

M- me 16

Joe- 11yr old

Chloe and Claire- 9yr olds

Jax-4 yr old.

So I’m 16 and usually when family comes over I’m the one watching since I’m the oldest and most responsible of the group. So I did Chloe’s makeup and I wanted her to show her dad. I told them all besides the 4 yr old they could come and then as I was walking out the door I said I would only bring Chloe. So Joe and Claire wanted to go so they ended up running out the room and I kept saying they needed to stop but they didn’t so I brought all of them.

We did that several times ( but I allowed them as long as they behaved and were not bad ) so Claire and Joe kept rubbing every time and I kept telling them to stop so on the last one I told Claire and Joe they couldn’t go. Personally I don’t think it’s that bad since they didn’t listen. So I go into my room and Joe does too ( we’re sharing ) he moves all my makeup from the windowsill which is on ‘his side’ and I asked him if it was because of what happened outside and he said yes and I told him “I’m not singling you out. You have to understand that I am responsible for all of you and if one of you gets hurt that is on me.” Then I walked out and took Claire with me and told her the same.

Skip a little bit and Claire and I were outside and I was ranting because every time on vacation Joe does something like this and I text my friend too ( screenshots at the bottom ) so Joe walked up causing problems and I walked away with Claire so she wouldn’t have to be in the middle of it and he says “Go on M’s puppy dog, go follow her and do everything she says.” I turn around and say “Um, you need to apologize to her, that was unneeded and uncalled for! You need to leave.” A sister snapped. So he said he apologized for that but he didn’t.

So much more happened like he attempted to trip me but I ended up kicking him (accidentally of course because I didn’t see a foot), he hit me with a cane, he locked me out the house when he knew I was there, he climbed out a window and went back in through the door, I went to see if the window was unlocked because I want to be safe and I opened it and he grabbed my wrists and was trying to push me out, he’s tried to do the asshole move where you bump into someone’s shoulder to assert dominance or whatever the hell he’s trying to do, and then the funny thing is I took the remote from him because he’s letting a 9 yr old watch adult swim and he.. you’ll laugh at this, he went and told his mom. Then I heard him Mom like “ya’ll need to stop fighting.” First off your son needs to stop being a fucking asshole and if he lays a hand on me.. again then I’m knocking him on his ass and that’s a fucking promise. If he is a ass to his cousins again then he best believe he’ll be yelled at by me... I’m honestly tired of it. What should I do?