How to get over being cheated on??

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If we’re trying to fix our relationship how do I move on from the pain and betrayal and distrust of him cheating on me?

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I couldn't ever get over some one cheating. It's too personal and I'd never trust them again. Best of luck where ever your path leads!! Just remember, no one deserves to be cheated on. I don't care if you're struggling or having intimacy issues, no one should ever feel like cheating is the answer.

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You need to heal on your own time! He doesn’t get to make you feel like it’s history now and you need to move on. However long it takes is however long it takes. And let me say that it takes a while! HOWEVER, if your not married to this man/boy then I would walk away and not look back. It takes a long time to earn that trust back. A long time. You really need to think about if he is worth all of that struggle. Wold he do the same for you? It’s a very mature thing to attempt to work through those kinds of issues but not always worth the fight depending on the person or the relationship.

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I don’t think I could get over it. It’s so disrespectful.

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i tried to make it work with my ex when I found out he cheated. he had me convinced that it was my fault and that it didn't count as cheating because we were fighting and "it's not cheating because he wouldn't care if I slept with someone else". 
but I knew where and when he cheated on me and as it came closer to 1 year since he cheated it was affecting me more often. 
it will come back up and be that nagging thought in your head that you can't get rid of.
and when I brought it up that it was bothering me his response was "oh, how are you not over that yet?!" 
So i left his ass. I'm happier, healthier and with and amazing man that treats me like a princess and I hope to marry.

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It takes time. A long time, and it's something you don't forget. My SO did it to me. He was talking to 2 or 3 different girls at the beginning of our relationship. I ended things but he refused to let me go and showed up to my house and introduced himself to my dad and kept calling and messaging me and what not. It's been over 8 years since then, and it does still hurt and I just wonder if it'll happen again. I'd never caught him talking to anyone after, but then he started keeping tabs on girls on fb. He wasn't talking to anyone, and got rid of them when I found out. They didn't know he was keeping tabs on them either but sometimes it still hurts to think that he might still be doing it and idk about it. I guess it's one of those things that you can forgive but never forget and it's always there somehow and hurts to think about from time to time.

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Maybe dont try and fix the relationship now, give yourself time to heal.

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I left him in the dust because I knew I would never trust him again. I wanted to find someone that valued me and or relationships.

How to get over being cheated on??

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