After a long time of fighting , My bf of five years and i are in a terrible spot. He will fight and be passive aggressive and gets very angry that i try to express my feelings (obviously upset me is yelling and ... upset) and says the fact that i won’t just control my emotions and walk away has made him want to end the relationship. He gave me two weeks to “make it up to him”/ but didn’t give me anything to work with, gets mad at me when i buy things , and will not help me understand what will change his mind. In fact he goes through moments of where it feels like we are normal, living together , doing things together ect- but then it’s almost like he shakes himself into anger at random moments and will say things like nothing i can do will work or that he will go on tinder and fuck someone for revenge , or that the “clock is ticking “ we live together and immediately after the fight he blocked me on Venmo so i “couldn’t pay rent the next month”. Am i being crazy for thinking that it’s crazy to make someone do this? Does this sound fair? He keeps saying the decision was mine and i didn’t care about him enough to

Not fight