One of my best friends and her husband cannot get pregnant naturally. He doesnt produce sperm at all. So they’ve been doing <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>’s unsuccessfully and she recently learned she has endometriosis. They took care of that during her exploratory surgery and gave her the go ahead to try again soon but she can’t decide if she wants to she’s just extremely frustrated and wants nothing more than to get a BFP.

Here’s where I need help. My husband and I are pregnant with our 3rd. We lost our first son full term and even after that, she still couldn’t muster up a tiny bit of enthusiasm for me that we were having our rainbow baby.

She really is one of my best friends. She’s not a bad person. You just have to know how she is. She’s literally been the only person to help me in some of my most desperate times of need.

I have no idea how to tell her we’re having another baby. I don’t want her to just find out when we announce. (We live in different states now so she wouldn’t just see me with a bump).

How can I say “I’m having another kid” without it really hurting her? 😫