How would you feel if a month before you meet your SO he had sex with a female ONE TIME HE SAYS , & she ends up pregnant . we met & been dating ever since then , I had NO KNOWLEDGE until the baby is born in May , & she doesn't know who the baby father can be so therefore she's reaching out to my boyfriend , one dude took the test and it was negative . She has yet to schedule at set time & date of when MY boyfriend should take the DNA test to find out . he has a 3 year old with another female which I accepted from the jump because the child was way over before me BUT another baby I just can't do !! Today she texted him and said " how are you ?" he said he's not going to respond but I just dont know , we argued a couple of times because I how could this be ? We have been trying for a baby and it just wont happen , on top of finding out about this " suppose to be baby " its a lil girl , & I been wanting a lil girl :( I love him to death but I just can't do another baby & baby mom ! what can I do ?