Call me silly, but I’m terrified that my husband is going to think I’m unattractive when he gets home next week from deployment. He left when I was 8 weeks along and apart from a little bloating, i felt trim and in good shape. Now I’m in that stage where I just look fat. I’ve struggled with feeling tired and nauseous this pregnancy, and am not as physically trim as I wanted to be from not being in the gym as much. I guess I’m not sure why I’m posting this, I guess I need a place to vent my concerns. I’m afraid of having sex again since I feel so gross and unattractive. How should I handle this? Am I just being crazy?