Okay so long story short, when I was 14 I dated a 21 year old. it last until I was 16. It's was a sexual relationship. I've lived and learned from it and I don't really want to be lectured on how dumb I was. I know I was dumb lol. But I'm now 21 as of a few days ago. The age HE was when we started dating. And just the thought of me manipulating and taking advantage of a young boy/girl like he did disgusts me!! I'm realizing all the manipulating and abusing he did and I'm so mad!!! a part of me wants to call the police and have him arrested. And ruin his relationship with his wife and send him to prison! another part of me wants to message the wife that way at least she KNOWS the kind of man she's married to; whether she believes me or not. Another part of me wants to message HIM and just tear him a new one!!! He lives in a different state and I haven't spoken to him since I was 16. But I'm just so mad. should I do any of the things i mentioned? should I just leave it alone? my current SO knows about it and I vented to him and asked what he thought I should do and he said it's up to me. I'm just so mad I want to cry.