i have been married just under two years. my husband wasnt rich or educated, whereas i come from a family who always expected more for me. since i studied hard and fonallu graduated last year. my husband cheated on me thtee month after we got married. i forgave him and moved on... he got social media apps to chat with other women.... and still i forgave him, and moved on, he has a daughter from another women before we met and his baby moma kept hitting on him. i have a daughter from another man before we met. he never bothers with my 6 year old daughter and she stays with us, but i must play mommy (not that i mind coz i love kids)with his daughter every second weekend then he sleeps or ignores his child. he hides his pay slips and money when he gets paid iand i have never seen how much he earns, once i saw and was amazed he earns so much but pretens he is broke all the time around me. i have taken initaitive to buy a house for Us,and lately whenever we argue he call me rude names and threatens me with violence, infront of the kids. i keep telling him i dont like it. i am becoming very depressed. we are moving into our new home next weekend but im at the point where i feel he shouldnt move with us. he has never bought furniture, or anything. it is always me having to buy when we need stuff. am I wrong for wanting to move without him?? update

.... finally gotten the courage to pack me and my daughters stuff. we moving monday.... told husband but he doesn't seem to take me seriously. joking and saying that he will come visit me and pound on my door till i open it in the middle of the night. he makes me feel like im craze, acting all lovingly ever since i told him i am leaving without him