If your boyfriend says he’s gonna take you out for your bday and makes you pay for your own meal.... I can do that it’s just that if it’s my bday I’d at least like to know my bf cares enough to handle it we always take turns paying for stuff but my birthday tho? I thought that was a exception he was like you even said your gonna pay for my meal and I never told him I’d pay for his meal. It’s not being a golddigger it’s just like damn this guy hates spending money on me. No he isn’t spending