Where are you guys?

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Love the idea of this group but it feels like nobody is out there. How’s it going ladies? Are your men out, have you given up? Let’s talk about it.

My love just had his hearing to plead for a change of heart from the judge, his original sentence stands. 2-7 years and we’re down one month. He’s trying to get moved so we can at least visit him because at this point all we have are phone calls. He knows he has to have spotless behavior and needs to be a model inmate. Thankfully we have faith and he is being so strong. Hoping for early release and doing everything he can to be a waste of space. I love him so much and miss him every minute of every day.

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My fiancée is incarcerated At the moment ..Come home in February 2019 ..💑We went through a really rough time 🤷🏽‍♀️But I really can’t help who I love 💕 & Plus this man love is amazing We are planning a Quiet Elope upon his release from prison we been together February makes 2 years my longest committed relationship People have a lot of judge mental things to say about holding your man down but chileee I don’t even listen 👂 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️💅🏽

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Telisia • Jan 29, 2019
@AMajor what’s the date?! Let the countdown begin!!

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I live in ny and holding my baby down till next year I’m really going back and forth with this lifestyle trying to remove myself from it but you can’t help who you love

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s • Jan 2, 2019
Where are your guys in NY?? Mine is also from NY. I struggle with this life because it’s new and scary and plain fucking awful. But you can’t help but love who you love. Mines got 4.5 years left unless the appeal is approved 😩

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same my husband is literally doing time for not snitching. 🤦‍♀️

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Am • Oct 2, 2018
I agree! The punishment surely doesn’t fit the crime and I think his judge was a racist. He knows I love him and will stand by him but if he ever gets in any trouble again there is no additional chances with us

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I’m here honey!!! I’m still holding on and standing by my hubby. All we got is our faith!! 😊😊😊😊

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Telisia • Aug 4, 2018
Amen!!! 😊😊😊

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Am • Aug 2, 2018
Thank you! I’m still holding on too, our whole family is unjustly being punished but we all still turn to god. I pray all the time, for his safety, for strength, for a miracle, some greater good to come from it all, answers and understand, guidance... trying desperately to keep it day to day and not larger time frames.

kc

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Release date 23 March 2022 😭

Ka

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I’m here I actually just looked this group up. My SO and I aren’t married but might as well be lol

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Kayla • Aug 6, 2018
He hasn’t asked yet talks about it all the time but hasn’t asked yet

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Telisia • Aug 6, 2018
What is stopping you guys from getting married?? Besides the incarceration.

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Hi! I’m new to this group. My fiancé was just taken into custody last week for a 1.5 year sentence in Arizona. I’m having a really tough time adjusting to everything and I’m currently 30 weeks pregnant. Any support or advice would be great.

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Am • Jun 4, 2021
So sorry 😞 stay healthy for that baby. Hope you have a support system. My mans family was my saving grace while he was down. Be as supportive as you can be be a beacon of strength, make sure he knows this is the turning point for your entire family, even if it is the tight crew of you three. A year and a half isn’t that bad, could be way worse. As long as you look at this as a point to grow from and keep pushing through to the future you will make it. Going forward and not looking back is what you have to do every day. Be strong and know there still is positive in every day if you look for it, you’ll find it.

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Hey. Just came across this group and I’m just excited to come across people that can understand what choosing to hold down a relationship like this feels like without prejudice. Anyway. My LO is at a TC and I’m hoping to get to see him as soon as possible. I hope to hear more from the group and thanks for it!!!

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Kentucky, my fiance had been in almost 8 months now and staying by his side💕 currently working on getting the papers to request to let use get married while hes incarcerated. He finally got to see his son (my step son) and get to hold our newborn daughter two weeks ago💕 it gets hard sometimes but just have to remember it's not forever. Plus j get to see him where if he was in the army and was sent over seas or something would not be the case. Just have to keep looking at the positives and stay supportive of him and our children.

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Tennessee