Can only orgasm from outside stimulation ?

Question

Sometimes sex can be a little aggravating because I can only have an orgasm from the outside. Sorry if it’s TMI, but I’m feeling like it’s not normal, although I’ve read it can be common. Does anyone else experience this and can give me some insight on this? It’s not a huge problem because we still have a great sex life, but I feel like it would be so much better if we could “finish” together instead of me first, and then him, ya know?

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It's not uncommon, but it is highly unfair (😂) . A lot of women can't orgasm from penetration alone. Have you tried clitoral stimulation and penetration at the same time?

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Yes. This is extremely normal & common!! The majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone & need clitoral stimulation. So, just incorporate that during intercourse. U being on top & grinding can help too, because ur clit typically gets stimulated by his pelvic area. Or, just have him get u off orally before intercourse.

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I can orgasm with both!! I definitely suggest masturbating and trying out new things with your body and seeing what you like. Then with a partner, it took me almost 3 months to orgasm with my boyfriend now and I realized I had to be on top where I have full control of the motions.

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I have never been able to orgasm from a guy stimulating me. If he goes down on me, I barely feel it, and while I love penetration, it doesn’t get me off. It may, but I feel like I’ve got some kind of mental block stopping it. I feel like I’m going to poop or pee??? People will say I’m a squirter or whatever, but I’ve never done that, even with just me. And it’s frustrating because no guy understands. I can’t even orgasm in front of him using a vibrator by myself, which gets me off no problem by myself! It’s really really frustrating.

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i cant at all. its take some time but were finally in sync 😂 i stimulate the outside myself or well use vibrating cock rings during sex. and he can feel when im approaching climax and ill say something indicating it. right when im hitting my peak then hell go harder and finish a few seconds later. its taken 5yrs haha

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Im the opposite, outside stimulation does nothing for me but inside its amazing and I can orgasm that way. Ive heard its pretty common to need clitoral stimulation. maybe try a position where he grinds against you while thrusting, a cock ring, or just using your hands while hes thrusting.

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I cant or am from penetration only.. in fact I get bored and lose interest if it's only penetration. So, your not alone and it's completely normal!

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I’m the same way. My fiancé rubs my clit while penetrating and it’s the best orgasms I have

Can only orgasm from outside stimulation ?

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