We haven’t seen each other in more than 2 weeks and I raised the issue to him because time is escaping us because he works and so do I. Also he will be travelling for half the month in August. So discussing it we got In to a bit of an argument because I didn’t appreciate how we haven’t been spending time together. I’ve tried to reschedule plans to accommodate him but I feel like recently he’s been busy dealing with other people. We both agreed our time together is lacking and not quality. So we decided Sunday will be our day and he will arrange it. So here Sunday comes and initially he didn’t set any plans and I had to contact him at around 2pm to find out if we were still doing something. He gets back to me at 3 says he’s been roped in to taking this nephew to a party and after that we’re going to do movie and a meal. I said that’s fine just to let me know when he’s done as I can chill with some friends in the mean time. So hours past for him to contact me at 9pm saying we should meet. I asked where he was and he got back to me 30mins later saying he’s just leaving the area and the trains are moving super slow.

So it will take me about 40mins to get to the meet up point and he already is moving slow. I told him to forget tonight because it’s too late now. I blew up on him because the one day that we arranged he couldn’t even prioritise. Lately it’s pissing me off that he can do everything but be with me. Like my time is important and i made sure i kept this particular day free. I cancelled plans and moved things around and if he can’t uphold a plan we made a while back then what’s the point.

Am I being unreasonable??